These two parent relationship questionnaires have been developed in collaboration with professionals and parents across Brighton & Hove.

There is one questionnaire for separated parents and one for couples. Both have been designed to help parents better understand:

  • the amount of conflict in their relationship
  • the types of things they argue about most 
  • if conflict between them is affecting their children

Download the questionnaires.

The questionnaire is designed to be used alongside the accompanying User Guide and Scoring System. The scoring system helps parent understand if they are in high, medium or low levels of conflict and the User Guide recommends relevant courses and programmes based on that score.

Ideally both parents would complete the questionnaire, but it can still be useful if just one parent does. Having a professional who knows you and can talk through your scores and the recommendations in the User Guide with you can also help, but isn’t essential.

If you complete the questionnaire and would like some help using the scoring system, or just to talk to somebody afterwards, please get in touch using the contact details below.

If English is an additional language for you, or someone you are supporting, please use the contact details below to ask about booking a free appointment with an interpreter to help you use the questionnaire.

Phone 01273 292 901 or send an email to

The Samaritans are always available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 116 123.