These two parent relationship questionnaires have been developed in collaboration with professionals and parents across Brighton & Hove.

There is one questionnaire for separated parents and one for couples. Both have been designed to help parents better understand:

  • the amount of conflict in their relationship
  • the types of things they argue about most 
  • if conflict between them is affecting their children

Complete the questionnaire

The questionnaire scoring  helps parents understand if they are in high, medium or low levels of conflict and recommends relevant courses and programmes are based on that score.

Ideally both parents would complete the questionnaire, but it can still be useful if just one parent does. Having a professional who knows you and can talk through your scores and the recommendations with you can also help, but isn’t essential.

If you complete a questionnaire and would like  to discuss the suggested course or programmes, or just to talk to somebody afterwards, please get in touch using the contact details below.

If English is an additional language for you, or someone you are supporting, please use the contact details below to ask about booking a free appointment with an interpreter to help you use the questionnaires.

Phone 07825 862 574 or send an email to

The Samaritans are always available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 116 123.